Transcript from a meeting with James Eaton on 10 January, 2017
Q: I came up because I just saw something that I hadn’t seen before… some kind of… the best way I can label it right now is like a fear of intimacy.
James: How is it showing up? What is it you’re noticing?
Q: It’s kind of here, in the heart.
James: Is it hot, cold, tight, heavy?
Q: It’s tight.
James: Really feel into that tightness, right now. Just as we are here, just here, allow it into this aware openness that you are. Welcome it in, no agenda, let it do whatever it wants to do… here you are, here is your true support…
Yes, let the legs shake if they want to shake, it’s all allowed, it’s all included. Here you are, being the space for all of it to do whatever it needs to do..
Q: It’s grief…
James: Grief, yeah (breathes with her)…
Q: One of the ways that it’s manifesting at the moment, it’s like the body is not well, the body is sick and it’s kind of pushing it away.
James: Yes. That makes the body more sick. So here, if you notice that happening – that resistance, that pushing away – that’s fine. Don’t then get involved and try to stop it, to resist the resistance. That’s just more resistance… No agenda, being the space. Watching it all play out… (breathing deeply with her)…
It’s great what you are doing, because you’re playing with it, on the edge there, you’re just playing with it. That’s really beautiful. You’re just dipping your toe in, over the edge, seeing if it’s ok. That’s beautiful, that’s the way in. Building the confidence, seeing that it’s ok. Building the confidence in Being, in your true support, slowly taking ownership of what you are. It can take it’s own time, there is no rush. No rush…
You are so deeply loved…
Q: There’s some kind of recognition happening…
James: You’re learning to be allowed, to be allowed to BE. You are allowed, you have permission!…
Yeah, we really need to hear that on a very deep level…
YOU ARE ALLOWED! REALLY!…
Q: Thank you
