How we love to be special, to be respected, admired, adored! And then what happens when all our specialness is overlooked? We swing the other way and feel neglected, unloved and full of self-pity. But what is all this drama really about? Keeping the bubble of ‘me’ firmly intact. Avoiding the utter terror of its bursting. But what if our bubble does bursts? What if all we have to lose is the belief that we have something to lose?